So you never wanted a normal life? What is that? Barbeques and ballgames?
24 03 2004Ine
I had a long share of mind with her yesterday. She is now living for almost two years in Tel Aviv Israel. When I visited her for the first time I understood what it means to ‘live and work light’. Visiting Ine, I have also come to understand what ‘moving out’ is really about. We are a generation of connected people. The last four years especially our rhythm of life changed drastically. And I a way, it is what we have been dreaming about. But we never really got the time to adopt, really.
We still have our ‘heavy’ daily infrastructure (cars, houses, families, habits, 2h traffic jam in the morning, 2h traffic jam in the evening, companies filled with politics where ’staying alive’ is the norm instead of ‘building’). And the alternative is scary, to most. For it requires to be rock solid certain of your essentials, of the people you want to create with, of the work & live context you really care about.
And it is different form what we have previously lived in every way.
I’m leaving in three days. The feeling is chaotic, even if you prepared months in a row by working 14hdays 7on7. And it’s not about rhythm, days in San Jose will be workoholic in every way. Yet, the feeling will be different.
Yes, I need a place I’m attached to. People I belong with. Not a nation, more an ‘esprit de vivre’. I need a ‘homebase’. A place I can call my own. And it has never been Belgium.
And yes, I will be working in Brussels and other places. Have you ever seen the movie ‘heat’? “Don’t get attached to anything you can’t walk away from in less than 30 seconds if you feel the heat’s around the corner.” That’s how I look to those places, even my own country. The only place where I didn’t have this feeling is San Jose.
And yes, hearing Ine and Maarten made me think…
First things first.
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